I have always been curious about people talking about you in your presence, knowing that you are right there, yet, asking questions about you that you could answer easily for yourself. Yesterday, I stopped by a friend's house for a few minutes when a relative of hers (a stranger to me) came in. We were introduced and we chatted amicably for some time; I felt we were getting to know each other fairly well. And then, she turned to my friend and asked, "Is she married?" You know, I felt that question was easy enough for me to answer, especially since I have been married for 39 and 1/2 years. (Before you get the wrong impression, they were going shopping and out to eat and she had commented that I should go with them).
While we were on one of our camping trips with my sister-in-law and brother, they met some church friends of theirs. We were again introduced but we didn't chat because that lady was just not going to talk to anyone other than my sister-in-law. In a few moments, she pointed at me and asked her, "Does she go to church... where does she go? There again, I could have answered that question for myself. I happen to go to a very small church, a country church, but one that is strong in its teaching and living the Gospel according to Jesus Christ. We also are believers that all of the Bible is God's Word; we don't pick and choose. Their church is also a strong Bible-teaching church but a very large one. I decided that it doesn't matter where you go, big or small, just so long as the Gospel is being taught straight from the Word of God. I just can't help but wonder if, because her church is bigger, that perhaps it's better. I don't know what she was trying to say in her following comments but that's okay. I know what I believe and in whom I believe. I have belonged to a large church before, one that was actually 10 times the size of hers. It, too, was a church with a solid foundation. I say all of this to say that size doesn't matter; beauty of the church doesn't matter; wealth of the church doesn't matter. What matters is our faith in God, realizing that Jesus died for our sins, and knowing that we are saved by the grace of God if we believe and trust in Him.
Do you want to know me? Just ask me, not my friends, not my family. I'll be glad to share with you.